“The only person you should compare yourself to is the person that you were yesterday.” by Gopika S Nair

 


You may think everyone is better than you but you are only seeing the image they portray to others. Everyone has their own fears and weaknesses, after all- we are all humans. Stop comparing yourself to others because you will always come up short. We compare because it gives us a sense of value and worth. 


Comparing yourself with who you were yesterday is perfect because the reason is you are constant. It allows us to take a controlled set of behaviours and beliefs and improve consistently day in and day out. It only makes sense to compare yourself to who you were yesterday because everyone is so different. It is very easy to censure oneself in the name of certain disabilities, but the challenge comes when he or she rises like a star to defeat the negative remarks with a willpower and spirit. Don't let success and failure of others hold you back. 


Bettering yourself will do more good in your life than any competition or award can ever reflect. Embrace all of your imperfections and improve the person that you are each and every day.

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