Where the beauty lies by Sarang Ashokan

 


Everyone admires beauty but not everyone sees the beauty within. Sometimes we fail to see the uniqueness within every person.

 From the story of the experiences from the life of Lizzie Velasquez, an American motivational speaker, who suffers from a rare syndrome which prevents her body from gaining weight. She was bullied at school in her younger days by the people who should have been there as her friends. She was a victim of cyberbullying where she had to see herself in a video titled "The ugliest girl in the world" followed by mean hate comments by people who don't seem to have a heart and failed to see that their victim has a heart that possibly couldn't bear that much pain.

 But now Lizzie Velasquez is a great personality, on top of the world, she influences people. She progressed in life because she knew that she wasn't defined by what people filled with hatred thought about her.

 According to me we can only progress in life by thoughts and opinions that are positive. The beauty within a person is not something that we define by comparison, we may feel insecure when we compare our looks to someone else's. But before we compare we never wonder why we crave for their beauty, we fail to know the reason  because we fail to be ourself, and to see what lies within ourselves that is beyond compare.

Being yourself, that is where the beauty lies, in who we are and within our heart. Be yourself and love yourself , because nobody can beat the best version of yourself. No matter what others think, we progress in life when we make sure that we are better than one particular person, the person you were yesterday. It is better to be hated for who you are than be loved for pretending to be someone you aren't.

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